Lately several of my friends and colleagues asked me " So when you plan to get married? " And I was like "ar... MARRIED?... hmmmmm... haven really though of it yet...oh come on.... I am only 24! Dont you think I'm too young ?" And they answered "NO" straight away......
Well I guess different people have different perspective of marriage and when is the right time to get married.
To me, I dont see myself as a WIFE at this moment. Imagine me being a wife? Although we've been living together for several years now, and most of my friends were telling me that there wouldnt be much difference then. However; to me, marriage would be a life time commitment. And for this, I wouldnt want to rush for it as I dont want to regret it later. I'm not trying to provoke my relationship right now, but just trying to be me.
At the age of 24, I doubt I can be so matured yet. At times, I admit being selfish where I want to do things my own way. From time to time, I love my own time doing things which I love to do. I'm not willing to let everything go for now. When you get married, there might be some things which I want to do but it might be that my husband would like to do it his way, and because we're married, we're kinda obliged to tolerate each other in order to fullfil our marrige knot...... Sounds good BUT not now..... not at this time YET....
I want to have my own career first before anything else. Its not that I'm not the "family-oriented" type but in my personal opinion; GIRLS should go for their dreams whenever there is any opportunities out there.....DONT LOOK BACK once YOU'VE DECIDED !!! Be strong, Be stern, Be beautiful and Be successful............... ALL at the same time :) *i know, its not as easy as it might sound* Well, NO PAIN, NO GAIN right ? :) *
*time to get my beauty sleep now..... nite nite all*
Well I guess different people have different perspective of marriage and when is the right time to get married.
To me, I dont see myself as a WIFE at this moment. Imagine me being a wife? Although we've been living together for several years now, and most of my friends were telling me that there wouldnt be much difference then. However; to me, marriage would be a life time commitment. And for this, I wouldnt want to rush for it as I dont want to regret it later. I'm not trying to provoke my relationship right now, but just trying to be me.
At the age of 24, I doubt I can be so matured yet. At times, I admit being selfish where I want to do things my own way. From time to time, I love my own time doing things which I love to do. I'm not willing to let everything go for now. When you get married, there might be some things which I want to do but it might be that my husband would like to do it his way, and because we're married, we're kinda obliged to tolerate each other in order to fullfil our marrige knot...... Sounds good BUT not now..... not at this time YET....
I want to have my own career first before anything else. Its not that I'm not the "family-oriented" type but in my personal opinion; GIRLS should go for their dreams whenever there is any opportunities out there.....DONT LOOK BACK once YOU'VE DECIDED !!! Be strong, Be stern, Be beautiful and Be successful............... ALL at the same time :) *i know, its not as easy as it might sound* Well, NO PAIN, NO GAIN right ? :) *
*time to get my beauty sleep now..... nite nite all*
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